I think this time I’m going to make it until morning ❤️❤️
IM NOT DEAD- as some of you may have been thinking. I have had a lot of things to think about over the past week, and I’ve had a week to reflect on myself, my life choices and what the hell I’m doing. There’s a long life ahead of us, and if you don’t take five minutes break then you crumble from beneath yourself.
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I’ve had struggles with my mental health and self harm, which I’ve mentioned here before, and I’ve learned that when I have to break from things then I do THAT exactly. I stop comparing myself, and I stop comparing everything around me to myself. It’s so important that you listen to your body.
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This account isn’t just about law, and constantly pushing yourself forward- it’s a community of people who are trying to believe in a future they’re constantly making, and I’m so glad we have built that. Some days I am so grateful for all my followers and everyone around me- when the world seems shit and as if everything around me is shit, all I have to do is think about these people ❤️
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HOW TO SUCCEED 💅🏻
... I wish there could be a magic spell, or a magic wish we could all make and then our dreams would come true.
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The truth is- everything comes at different time. Success is different for everyone. Maybe you passed your exam, maybe you can now drive a car, maybe you left the house for the first time in a week. -
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Something I don’t think we drive home enough is that everyone does things at different times in life. You may feel successful now, you may feel successful next week, maybe next year. -
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Success is different for everyone, and success comes in different forms. Stop competing because you think someone is ‘successful’ because, at the end of the day, they may not be successful to themselves 🥺
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💅🏻CAREER DRIVEN💅🏻
There’s been a bit of radio silence from me this week, and that is for several reasons. I have been driving myself forward in the legal world and attempting to build my CV. It can seem like you’re never going to get anywhere if you did the GDL like me and didn’t have three whole years of an LLB to be thinking about your law career. I have always been driven no matter what I do- because I’ve always wanted to prove that you can do what you want to do.
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This week I’ve been offered a position with Citizens Advice. It’s going to be advising people on social welfare and where they stand in relation to law etc. Something I want to go into- so definitely an experience I will enjoy and extremely passionate about
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Second, I’ve been offered a job in a law firm that specialises in criminal law. It’s only twice a week, but it’s a job that could lead to a TC some point in the future- so I’m extremely excited about it. I’m finally putting everything I’ve learned into practice and seeing how law impacts real people, and real clients. -
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Thirdly, I was doing a two day a week work experience programme, but due to the other commitments, I have had to put that on the back burner. It has been good to see a different side of the legal system that is legal tech- but the other two commitments are the kind of law I want to do into.
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People don’t understand how competitive law is, and how difficult it is to get somewhere. You have to push, you have to grind and you have to work your butt off to get where you want. However, you have to go out and grab the opportunities 💅🏻💅🏻
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WHEN SHE IS BROKEN ❤️
FYI, no one is broken, aside from me, but this is besides my point. I wanted to talk about something that a lot of people don’t- and that’s toxic relationships, toxic dating or toxic people. -
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We all have someone in our life who we shouldn’t, but it’s hard to push the away or walk away from them. It’s easy to be on the outside, watching in, and to tell someone that their boyfriend/girlfriend is toxic and they should leave them. However, when you’re head over heels for someone, all their ‘flaws’ become part of them. You love them.
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You know that they are human too, and you forgive them when they mess up. You say sorry when they tell you that you are just what they expected you’d be. You have them on your mind constantly, you want to keep them happy, you want to be the best you can be. You know they mess up sometimes, but it’s okay. One day, they tell you that self harming is your own fault and you did this to yourself, that you have no one else to blame. They look at you as if you are broken. They no longer comfort you when you cry. They become angry when you call them out on their behaviour. They make you feel shame, they make you feel worthless and they make you feel small. Because maybe you are worthless, because maybe you aren’t enough- and maybe you will never be.
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Toxic relationships, partners, friends can ruin your life. They can make you feel small, they can leave you feeling as if you are broken so bad no one can fix you. And, whoever you are reading this, I hope that if you go through this, you can fix yourself. I hope you can fix your broken heart, I hope you can love yourself again, I hope you can learn to forgive yourself for what you may have done to your body. -
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I hope you can smile, I hope you can love, I hope you can wake up one minute and feel happiness.
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Do I look like I wait around? 😘
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Trying to not get blown away, but still look like I have my life together. And actually, I do. I’m not seeing anyone at the moment, and I’m totally fine with that. And, I have finally learned an important lesson...
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Sometimes, people aren’t ready for what you are or the fire you have in you- and that’s fine, but you can’t wait around for them to be ready. What’s meant to be will happen, whose meant to be in your life will return... but don’t waste your time and wait for people. Your time is IMPORTANT ⏰ -
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