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Why I never want to ‘settle’.

February 1, 2020

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I LOST MY TRAINING CONTRACT. But I’m not mad anymore, and here’s why. I was ashamed to say this when it happened, and it was very much out of my control what happened. It wasn’t due to anything I did. It was due to circumstances. BUT every single event happens for a reason. I started working for a new company, I met new people, I felt support and love ALL around me: I weighed up how important life is over your CAREER. I did different things. I ended up in court. I ended up meeting someone who I didn’t think I’d meet for a while. I ended up starting something magical and absolutely beautiful. I cried, I was upset, I was mad, I was absolutely devastated. But I picked myself up and I took the next opportunity that came along. And I dived head first. Because THAT’S WHAT WE DO. I looked into the future, and I saw it rearranged in front of my eyes. And now the future is unclear, my path is unknown, but I feel supported, I laugh, I smile, I take each day as it comes. I am happy. • • • #legallyblonde #personal #positive #motivation #career #legal #law #lawyer #lawstudent #lawblog #feminist #feminism #me #selfie #makeup #motd #blonde #single #singlegirl #singlelife #lawlife

WHY I WILL ONLY POST POSITIVE THINGS FOR THE TIME BEING 🥰 Many people have talked about my honest blog and the way I speak honestly. Most of the honesty comes from a deep and dark place of me. I don’t want to be that person during the this time. The world is scary enough at the moment. So my pledge is to only post positive, talk positive and do positive. Our mental health needs this. For the time being, we have to support, encourage and see the light at the end of the tunnel. We have to see this is a temporary thing that too will pass. For many people it seems scary, but if you follow what you’re told to do, that’s all you can do. Our newsfeeds need some positivity. The news is there to give us the negative. We’re here to act as a community and bring everyone together. Set up they group, check on your friend, use all the technical equipment we were given. Now is the time that you will learn a lot about yourself, every single app to bring people together will be something we can use. Binge the Netflix series, read, become a different person. Smile and breathe ❤️❤️ • • • #feminist #personal #selfie #work #legallyblonde #legal #feminism #empowering #coronavirus #lockdown #me #lawyer #lawstudent

LETS TALK OPENING UP 🗣 I am not someone who will open up, it’s never been something I do. I always follow opening up with joking ‘I’m damaged’ and laugh it off. I can never look someone in the eyes when I tell them something from my past. I always wait with baited breath to how they might respond, because I’m used to being judged every time I open up. I’m used to feeling judged, unwanted and damaged. I tried opening up online to strangers before I started opening up to other people. I opened up to someone for the first time in a while last night, and I asked if he thought I was damaged. He told me no. - - - - #feminist #feminism #me #girl #style #outfit #law #lawyer #legallyblonde #legal #singlelife #single #singlegirl #empoweringwomen #empowerment #deep #personal #mentalhealthawareness #dating

DATING BECAUSE I WANT TO 😬❤️ Wow 2019 was weird for dating, and then the last few months have just felt shit. But, I decided start dating again because I want to. I’m in a better place, I’m happier, I’m not embarrassed of myself or my mental health at the moment. I’m doing pretty good. And I decided to start dating again for me, because I wanted that guy who makes you a better person. I wanted someone who I text when i have a good day or a bad day. Someone who I think about. Someone who mixes with me to make something amazing. Because I’ve gone into this with 0 expectations, I have been surprised. My type has definitely changed, my dating habits are different, I’m far more chilled out and taking it one day at a time. I’m putting myself out there and showing people who I am, and they can either accept or reject it. I’m actually loving it ❤️❤️ • • • #law #lawyer #legallyblonde #legal #me #feminist #feminism #girl #empowerment #empoweringwomen #dating #datinglife #single #singlegirl #outfit #blogger #manchesterblogger #girlabouttown

International Women’s Day ❤️ I was on a trial all this week with mainly female lawyers, and it was incredible to see us all smashing the patriarchal walls. I laughed so much, learned so much and felt like I can combat this career even in high heels (easier to stomp over men to get to my goals though 😉). We are trying to build a world that the next generation of women will grow up in and believe they can do absolutely anything that they put their minds to. It’s important to know strong women, raise strong women and be strong women. May we continue to shine, love and grow ❤️❤️❤️❤️ • • • #internationalwomensday #selfie #law #lawyer #legallyblonde #legal #girl #love #me #empoweringwomen #empowerment #feminist #feminism #pink #workwear #workingwoman #lifestyle #inspiration

LET’S TALK THE PERSON WE PRESENT TO THE WORLD 💔 Every person has a different personality they present to the world. Every person has a mask they put on. Every person has a small part of us we don’t want those around us to see. We all have our monsters deep down. We all have our burdens to bear. We all have our dark sides. - - What’s important here, is that people need to understand that everything you see is not what you get. The truth really is to not judge a book by it’s cover. Don’t judge someone by what they first present to you. Of course, we’re all guilty of meeting someone and disliking them at first, but sometimes there are things far deeper. Humans can be way more complex that we believe. - - We are all presenting someone to the world that we think will make us likeable, that we think will make us successful, that we think will make us stand out. Someone who we think will get more Tinder swipes. Someone who we think will get that job. - - For far too long, I have presented this huge ball of self confidence, and it’s been tiring pretending that I love myself, because I DON’T. I see my stretch marks, I see my chin, I see my nose, I see every single scar on my skin. I look at that girl who walks past me in the street. I look at that girl who sits next to me in a restaurant. I look at that girl, and I think why can’t I look like that? Just because someone may seem different to you, it doesn’t mean they are not fighting every day with themselves. So cut us some slack and fuck off ✌🏻✌🏻❤️❤️❤️ • • • • #feminist #feminism #empowerment #empowering #selflove #selfconfidence #love #legallyblonde #lawyer #law #lawblog #girl #life #lifestyle #single #singlelife #dating #feministblog #blogger #manchester #manchesterblogger #skirt #fashion #mentalhealthawareness #style

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