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Why I never want to ‘settle’.

February 1, 2020

I wasn’t raised to be a mediocre woman. … More Why I never want to ‘settle’.

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Why being single stinks sometimes... And it’s not because I want a man 🥴 I grew up with a certain anxiety towards men, due to the way I was treated since I can remember by young boys who I grew up. For years, I was taunted by boys who were allowed to get away with behaviour that was down to ‘boys being boys’. I then felt validated when a boy actually wanted to date me, and my confidence finally took a step upwards. In uni I was validated by a boyfriend and men the whole time. I found comfort in flirting with guys and feeling like I was attractive, and like I was someone they would want to date. I learned to make MYSELF feel confident when I became single and most days I look in the mirror and tell myself I’m a damn beautiful woman. However, sometimes being single can bring the insecurities back I had as a young girl... why does no one to date me? Why am I always second best? Why have I always been the one who is following behind the much prettier girls? Am I really that ugly? Sometimes, it’s hard to be your biggest fan, when no one else is cheering for you. • • • • #single #singlegirl #life #outfit #girl #blogger #dating #datinglife #feminist #feminism #me #love #empowerment #recovery #legallyblonde #lawblogger #lawyer

Are you REALLY happy? I was listening to something on the radio today 🤓 about a woman who had decided to quit her job, go back to uni and re-train in a different career, and I was like yessssss girl!! Sometimes, we get too comfortable in our little worlds, and stepping out our comfort zone is scary, but it’s okay to change your mind. You don’t have to go uni, you don’t have to stay in that relationship, you don’t have to continue your job if you’re not passionate about it, you don’t have to stay in one area of work, you don’t have to stick to the way the world tells you to work. I see so many people who aren’t happy in their RELATIONSHIP, their JOB, their SITUATION. It’s okay to step out and say you don’t want to be where you are, and you want a different path. Our life is so very short, and every day should be something you wake up to life through. No one should feel like they are stuck in a relationship, a job or a situation. You deserve happiness, and you should chase if ❤️❤️❤️ • • • • #girl #lawyer #law #court #legallyblonde #legal #paralegal #lawlife #outfit #workwear #womensworkwear #smart #fashion #style #bossbabe #motivation #inspiration #life #me #selfie #career #careergoals #womanempowerment #empowerment #singlegirl #singlelife

Happy 💅🏻💅🏻❤️❤️ If you know me, you’ll know that things like losing my old job hit me pretty hard. I have become too focused on my five year plan, and it felt fucked up almost two weeks ago. I had my first week at my new job, and it was great, without the fact I felt flat on my face in the rain (didn’t rip my tights, or my skirt, or my skin!!). Law is a career that can really make you feel small, insignificant and like you’ll never reach your dreams. There’s always one more hurdle, and you need a tribe around you to support your every move. I’m so thankful for those who have supported me, loved me, hugged me and told me I can do this, every single one is amazing and I am so blessed 💯💯 I managed to keep my recovery going through this, even though the voices in my head were there. Humanity does have a beautiful side, and sometimes people don’t see it, but it comes out in the darkest times. Always look for the light in the darkness ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ • • • #lawyer #law #feminist #feminism #motivation #career #me #girl #selfie #legallyblonde #legal #legally #bossbabe #boss #careergoals #aspirational #determined #motivated #womenempowerment #womensupportingwomen

Never saying sorry, for saying what’s on my mind 👀 .... and here I am back in your feed to go back to my bitching ways... 😬💞 Valentines really is an overrated holiday, however, I let people enjoy it... to an extent. I don’t have a boyfriend, I don’t have anyone who I’m seeing, I don’t even have anyone who I’m vaguely interested in, and do I look like I care? It gives me time to love and support my friends, because they are the MOST important thing to me. Even when I eventually decide I’m not sick of men, and might want one, that won’t change. Your friends will stick with you thick and thin, they won’t cheat on you, they won’t dump you if they think the grass is greener. Honestly, people should have more respect for their friends, rather than picking them up when it suits them. I’m that friend who won’t text 24/7, but you can bet the minute shit hits the fan l’ll be there. I’ll be on the end of the phone when you need, and I’ll drive to your house at 4am if that’s what you need. Valentines isn’t just about showering your S/O in gifts because you feel like you have to, it’s a time to tell people how much you love them and how much they bring to your life 👌🏻❤️ • • • • #valentines #girl #manchester #spinningfields #manchesterblogger #city #love #lawyer #law #legallyblonde #feminist #feminism #womenempowerment #womensupportingwomen #friends #motivation #inspiring #womanboss #bossbitch #badasswoman

LEGALLYBLONDE 👩🏼‍⚖️ NEW JOB NEW HAIR 💅🏻 My new job starts tomorrow. Super nervous. Feels like the first day of school. What if they don’t like me? What if I accidentally burp or fart? What if I fall over on my first day? Excited but nervous 😬😬😭😭 • • • #law #lawyer #feminist #feminism #me #selfie #legal #legallyblonde #blonde #haircut #makeup #redlipstick💄 #lipstick #femaleempowerment #lawblog #newjob #career #motivation

How to overcome bumps when you’re recovering 😘💞 It’s no secret that I am recovering from years of self harm. And, if you’ve just found that out, well... Which, unfortunately, left me leaving it as my way to cope for years. It was my best friend for years. It was the only thing I felt I could turn to when things went to shit. 💞 It’s hard to overcome bumps without relapsing, when you are recovering from something which is super addictive. It’s an addiction. It used to be something good to me. - 💞 To anyone else in recovery from anything, I understand the pain to relapse. The intruding thought that tells you it will fix everything. The thoughts that you need to do it. It’s hard to keep those thoughts at bay. They pop up when you least expect it. 💞 It’s easy for me to sit here and say turn it off. It’s not easy. And it never will be easy for you. Recovery never has a day off. How you deal with these bumps is what matters now. - 💞 Call someone. Take time to cry. Sleep if it helps. Let yourself be upset. Don’t feel guilty for your own emotions. And know that tomorrow will be better 💞 • • • • #law #legallyblonde #feminist #recovery #recoveryjourney #recoveryispossible #shrecovery #motivation #personal #womenempowerment #womensupportingwomen #blogger #blog #manchester #manchesterblogger

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