Who gave it all, and held you up when nobody else gave a fuck? 🤔
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This comes after my post last night about ending my long term relationship I ended two years ago. I was sick of being a crutch when a relationship isn’t about that kind of thing. I’m not here to be a MOTHER to a boy who doesn’t know how to be a human.
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We’re not here to be parents and teach our partners how to live their life. It doesn’t exactly scream romance. Why are we always the ones who create something good for the next person? We don’t get to experience the person we’ve made better. We are the ones who are hurt in the process and the ones that people learn from.
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I always ended up being the one who cried or got upset, and I had every bloody excuse under the sun. Maybe he would change, maybe he wouldn’t do this again, maybe it was just a one off. After all, we’re all human and make mistakes.
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Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
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❤️ Everyone thinks that they know a bloggers life, and everything they do, but you see about 10%. We share with you what we want to share. For me, there are things I’ve always said I’d keep off my blog, and that includes any changes in my family life and any relationships (unless I really want to share them). These past few months haven’t been easy, and it doesn’t help when you have this expectation to continue to strive and talk about what you believe. Blogging has taken a back burner the past couple of months, and thank god because I think the pressure of my blog may have burned me out way more ❤️
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EVERYTHING I KNOW ABOUT LIFE ❤️
1. Life is difficult. Life is hard. It wasn’t meant to be easy. It wasn’t meant to be a walk in the park. Life was made to try us every day, and to test us every day.
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2. People will love you, like you and hate you. Not everyone will like you, and that’s fine. You’re not here to impress people. So what if you’re not liked by 5000 people? What if you have 3 close friends? If you’re disliked, you’re doing something right (or maybe you’re not, but it sounds better with the right inserted).
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3. You will fuck up. And you will fuck up bad sometimes. You will break hearts. You will make people feel as if they let you down. You will make mistakes. You will say the wrong thing. But keep going darling, because no one is perfect.
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4. Books are the gateway to the past. We have to learn and read about history to understand what we should do next. We can’t repeat the same things over again.
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5. You can’t bury your head in the sand and pretend that things aren’t happening around you. Our world is OUR responsibility. Unfortunately, privilege can make ignorant and feel like they don’t have to follow world issues. I’m kind of sick of people who have the resources and the intelligence to follow world issues, but don’t.
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6. Giving back your time to people less fortunate is the best thing you can do. It’s rewarding, grounding and keeps you understanding of how other people live.
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7. Relationships, dating and love are something I will never understand. And that’s okay. I don’t think anyone quite understands how that thing works.
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9. Looking after yourself is way more important than we seem to believe sometimes. You are blessed with one body in this life, and we should cherish and care for it. We should give it the love it deserves.
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10. Life is too short, life is so short. Every minute, every second, every week counts. So what are you going to do next? -
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From the age of 7, I was told that I was weird, different, ugly, freaky, boring, nerdy, plain. Until the age of around 13 I was bullied, and I continued to feel excluded and made to feel small by so called ‘friends’. I was told I was ugly, no boy would ever like me... because who would like someone like me? I began to self harm at 14 because I felt like I had to punish myself because I was so ugly, and because I didn’t fit in. I just wanted to be as pretty as some of the other girls, I just wanted boys to notice me. I wanted boys to say nice things, not make me cry in front of people. -
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I didn’t enjoy my teenage years, for a multitude of reasons, but all the pain I felt continued with me for years after. I tried to fit in and I tried to be pretty- and it still has an impact on me every now and then. I had girls who would laugh at me, or joke about me in the playground. I had ‘friends’ who wouldn’t support me against these bullies. I was told I couldn’t hang out with certain people. I was made to feel so small, so worthless and so unattractive. -
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To some of us, bullying seems like such a small thing, but when you’re a teenager things leave scars. Literally and metaphorically. As an adult woman, I can take on anyone now who treats me like shit and I can speak my mind. And I have a support group who will back me up. As an adult woman, I can reclaim all the shitty things they called me.
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Maybe I am different, maybe I am weird, but maybe that’s what makes us all human. Maybe I was plain, but maybe I was lost in a world that made us all believe we should be one thing. Maybe I was nerdy, but look at where I am now. Success is the biggest revenge against anyone who has done you wrong in the past. -
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5 very real things I know about being a woman:
1. Periods, contraception and hormones can fuck off. I’m only moaning because my periods just appear out of the blue now- how joyous. Mother Nature doesn’t even knock anymore, she kicks down the bloody door and makes herself comfortable. Contraception pays off when it’s useful for reasons of... adult things... UNTIL THEN, stop making my periods random.
2. Makeup really dries up during the day and it looks like you have some lovely oil poured on your face. Lipstick can be smear proof, paint, permanent, but that shit still dries up to the MAX.
3. Non shaving season is seriously upon us, but I shaved myself to a t the other week, and now I’m regretting that loss of hair. It’s too cold.
4. 90% of men want you for your nudes- and you have to tell them where to shove it. Honestly, mate, I don’t appreciate you texting me at half 1 for a nude. I’m MORE than nudes.
5. It’s hard to be heard in a world that wants to silence you, but you have a voice and you need to use it.
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